You are valued and respected not only for what you do, but also for how unique you are in comparison to the rest of the others. We should stand out from the crowd by improving our attitude, profession, ideas, and thinking ability in comparison to others.
We cannot and should not live like other people, because everyone was created to be unique and to live their lives as they wish. The majority of them are striving to live like others and losing their happiness, which could make them even more miserable. Let us delve into the most absurd things that would fade your lives and cause you to lose your individuality and make you to forget your purpose on this planet.
The Most Ridiculous Advice
You may have heard this from your parents, professors or teachers, and even some motivational youtubers. They will continue to emphasise that "if they can do it, you can too," which may provide you with instant motivation and pleasure. There is nothing wrong with the people who are motivating you to succeed. But, in reality, it will not work.
Let me tell you about a time when I was in school. I'm an average introverted student who did well in school and enjoyed reading cool books from the library, blogs from the internet, and watching informative videos on YouTube. I was not interested in sports at the time, and those things are still far from my mind.
Every year, my school would host inter-school sporting events and other activities. Many students from various schools would attend and compete. For about a week, the competitions felt like a fair. Most likely, I will not enjoy and entertain them.
At the time, one of my favourite teachers called and began discussing myself and my studies. She was seriously concerned about me because I was one of the reputed students. She started giving me ridiculous advice like, "If others can do it, you certainly can. Participate in sports and activities," she had told me, and she had given me the false impression that "you are capable of winning in sports." "When she asked why I wasn't taking part, I told her that I didn't feel like it and that I had never wanted to be a sportsman.
The same thing could happen to you. In my case, my teacher insisted on being like others, and I demonstrated that it's just the way I am by succeeding in my own desired field.
If anyone in your life is attempting to implant the desire to be like others and giving the false hope and belief to win in everything. Avoid them in a gentle manner by revealing your individuality. Never, ever abide this ridiculous advice.
The Most Pathetic condition
You may have seen some people who were attempting to become popular in the same way that others were. They will be motivated by successful people. It could be a business magnate, an Instagram celebrity, or a footballer. Their primary objective is to imitate them. Photos of their role models will be used as desktop and mobile wallpapers, as well as in their wardrobes and rooms. They were also reading books, articles, news, and watching videos on the internet about those celebrities. They are coping with the lives of others rather than living their own.
This is the most pitiful situation possible; it is not entirely their fault, but their Circle has inadvertently induced this way of life. Never befriend these people's lives because it will have significant consequences for you. You will lose your elegance and dependability.
The Reality
The world only admires those who are different; they are not doing so on purpose, but our brains are programmed to admire differences, therefore people will not love these types of people who were in the most pitiful condition and following the foolish advise.
You have probably heard the saying, "If wealth is lost, nothing is lost; if health is lost, something will be lost; if character is lost, everything is lost." Likewise everyone of us, should have an unique character, at the moment when we try to copy others, we are eventually losing us.
Don't give up your uniqueness at any cost because it's just who you are and adds to the beauty and charm of your life.
Being unique gives us confidence, and we are generally adored by everyone. Stop relying on myths and start pursuing your dreams with your uniqueness.
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