The Power of Silence

Silence is the source of great strength

 Silence nourishes our mind and soul and makes us think. It is our inner need. We learn to recognize distractions and respond constructively. Silence allows us to extend our creativity beyond borders. It makes us physically, mentally and emotionally strong.  

Create value for your words 

The expensive things in the world are limited, so it's more valuable and people chase it. To make your words valuable you have to make it limited because without silence, words lose their meaning. 

If you talk a lot. Most of the time they don't pay any attention to you. When everyone is talking and continuing to share their views during a discussion or meeting. When you are silent, their attention is focused on you and they wait for you to speak. Observe and suggest relevant ideas. Your value will increase in front of them. This is where you create value for your silence. 

 Do not talk unnecessarily, even with your best friends or family. Because you will lose your value to them. It doesn't matter how good you are.Always do your best to provide value to those who speak to you. 

 Speak only when you feel that your words are better than silence.

Win All Debate, Negotiations and Arguments.

  When you use Silence strategically and intentionally, It can help you to win people and great deals. 

A lot of people think about winning and follow these steps to get everyone involved and win the debate, but They don't listen carefully, they distract the speaker, and they don't even try to think about it. They usually come up with irrational random suggestions and solutions. This annoys everyone and can damage their respect and reputation. 

When you are silent, they wonder what you are thinking. The discomfort of silence will force the other person to fill the void and speak. Be sure to disclose information that will help advance the conversation.

 Keeping silence and correct gestures during a discussion will give you ample time to listen carefully. You will have time to understand and effectively reflect on their point of view. 

 Once fully understood, fewer effective sentences during the discussion will add weight and emphasis to the perspective. A good listener can always communicate well and make effective decisions. 

Knowing When and Where to Speak

There are situations when you need to learn to remain silent and be aware of these situations.

1. No need to speak when you have trouble thinking clearly. There can be several reasons. You may feel tired, affected, angry or anxious. In such situations, it is better to wait a little before commenting. Otherwise, you will say something you will regret later.

2. We can make assumptions and make an opinion even in the absence of evidence. However, this is not always the case. For example, you should not provide unreliable information when talking about something that could have a significant impact on others, such as their physical and mental well-being. 

3. Don't speak when you have nothing to say. Just because you think you should add it doesn't mean you should. Instead, you can support what others say. It can be embarrassing to say that you don't have anything to add, but it's usually better than speaking for the sake of conversation. Admit that you have nothing to add.

Use the power of Silence and become a valuable person in life.